Thursday, December 13, 2007
I read my devotional the other day, that I get everyday through my email, and it was truely incredible. Here is what it said:
“Read it again Mommy. Pleeeease read it again,” Mackenzie, my then seven-year-old, begged. Her three-year-old brother, Mitchell, echoed her plea. “Yes Mommy, especially the part about the little boy and his donkey!”
Their freshly washed faces and still wet hair glowed in the light of the Christmas tree as they sat with pajamas on next to me on the couch. A nightly December ritual, they chose a book from our “Baby Jesus Basket” full of story books about the birth of Christ. Their favorite this particular year was The Small One, a fictitious story of a too small donkey who has to be sold in order to bring in one piece of silver. His young master takes him to town, but no one wants such a small creature except for the village tanner. The donkey is ready to give up his life when a kind man offers to buy him to help carry his pregnant wife to Bethlehem . So the small donkey is given the great task of carrying the mother of Jesus to the stable where He will be born.
I have always loved reading Christmas stories to my children and each year they receive a new nativity book from my mom. That year, however, my eyes were opened to part of the story that I had been unintentionally leaving out. After tottering over to the “Baby Jesus Basket” to put away the book we’d just finished, Mitchell asked me to read him a story from the Bible about the other Jesus.
“What other Jesus?” I asked.
“Not baby Jesus,” he replied. “Big Jesus who died on the cross.”
Now realizing that he’d not connected the two in his mind, I sat and explained that the baby Jesus grew up to be the same Jesus who died on the cross to save us from our sins. Somehow he’d figured baby Jesus was a fairy tale and big Jesus was “for real.”
I thought of how we adults can do much the same thing. Oh, we know there is just one Jesus and that He is for real, but we are content to leave Him harmlessly in the manger. Somehow a sweet adorable little baby is acceptable to the world around us. But a Lord who calls for men and women to choose either to obey Him or suffer the consequences is not. But we can’t have one part of the story without the other. We must never forget that the hand-hewn manger one day became an old rugged cross. We can’t just peer lovingly into the manger without looking obediently to the cross. Baby Jesus deserves our adoration and the Lord Jesus deserves our allegiance.
The next year I did not neglect the entire story of the one true Jesus when reading nativity books to our children. Starting with Luke chapter two from God’s perfect word before I chose a picture book from our special basket we read of God’s wonderful plan of sending Jesus to earth. We worked on memorizing more of the Scripture in order to put on our annual nativity play for Grandma and Grandpa complete with baby Spencer starring as the Christ child.
Still today, we’re inventing ways to keep the story going until Easter in order to tie it all together. One woman told me of how they save their Christmas tree, cut off all of the branches so they are left with one large trunk. They then cut off the top about one-third of the way down and then using twine tie the two pieces together in the shape of the cross. It is then placed in their house where the Christmas tree had been as a visual reminder of the entire life of Christ.
From the cradle to the cross . . . oh come let us adore Him!
How wonderful is that!?!
“Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger." Luke 2:11-12 (NIV)
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
What Baby?
I am not one of those stereotypes, that immediately get pregnant after getting married. Zac and I are being really smart about this and want to wait at least 5 years. We are not in a position to start raising kids, we are too young. Besides, both of us want to be established in our careers and where we will be living before kids are ever brought into the picture. Of course, our plan is not always God's plan. God's will be done, not ours! So if He decides he wants something different, then so be it.
Tuesday, June 26, 2007
Things are just fine and dandy...
My darling hubby convinced me to join his work's Softball team. So we had our first practice in the middle of the day under the scorching sun. It wasn't bad, we have definite potential. But we had a double header the following week, which we lost of course, but thankfully it was only a tournament to determine which district we were going to be in. I think we are in like District E, which is the lowest, lol. I think Zac was surprised that I could actually play and wasn't a ditzy blonde out there on the field. lol. Yes, I do know how to catch a ball and throw it. Surprise, surprise.
Not much else is going on right now. Hopefully, I will have something better to talk about later.
Tuesday, May 29, 2007
The new Mrs. Graham
Monday, April 09, 2007
I licked a smurf because I'm a Ninja?
Pick the month you were born:
January------I kicked
February-----I loved
March---------I karate chopped
April-----------I licked
May-----------I jumped on
June----------I smelled
July-----------I did the Macarena with
August-------I had lunch with
September---I danced with
October------I sang to
November----I yelled at
December----I ran over
Pick the day (number) you were born on:
1-------a birdbath
2-------a monster
3-------a phone
4-------a fork
5-------a snowman
6-------a gangster
7-------my cell phone
8-------my dog
9-------my best friends' boyfriend
10-------my neighbor
11-------my science teacher
12-------a banana
13-------a fireman
14-------a stuffed animal
15-------a goat
16-------a pickle
17-------your mom
18-------a spoon
19------- a smurf
20-------a baseball bat
21-------a ninja
22-------Chuck Norris
23-------a noodle
24-------a squirrel
25-------a football player
26-------my sister
27-------my brother
28-------an ipod
29-------a surfer
30-------a llama
31-------A homeless guy
Pick the color of shirt you are wearing:
White--------because I'm cool like that
Black---------because that's how I roll
Pink----------because I'm NOT crazy
Red----------because the voices told me to
Blue----------because I'm sexy and I do what I want
Green---------because I think I need some serious help
Purple--------because I'm AWESOME!
Gray----------because Big Bird said to and he's my leader
Yellow-----because someone offered me 1,000,000 dollars
Orange-------because my family thinks I'm stupid anyway
Brown--------because I can
Other---------because I'm a Ninja
None----------because I can't control myself
Saturday, April 07, 2007
Thursday, April 05, 2007
Today, for instance, one of my bridesmaids sent me an email saying that she was going to pester me because it was a couple of weeks before the Bridal Shower and Bachelorette Party, and I needed to get the details about the day. What in the HECK!?!? I didn't know that the bride was supposed to plan her own Bachelorette Party. I just want to go to Carlos n Charlies in Austin, see the band that is playing and eat and have drinks and have a great time! What else do I need to say?!?! Do I need to arrange the carpool as well? Do I need to arrange babysitters? Do I need to arrange every specific detail of everything? I'm tired of having to do everything by myself. Why not add something else on my plate, with EVERYTHING ELSE that I have to do? If there is something else that has to be added for ME to plan, I'm just not going to do it. I don't have time. I'm losing sleep over all of this and I am making myself a anxious emotional wreck. The encouragements I have gotten are from my sister, Red and Zac. If I didn't have them I don't know what I would do.
Slowly things are coming into place. I am meeting with my pianist today, and hopefully, he knows how to play everything that I requested and then that will be something I don't have to worry about. Then I have to take the music list that I want, take it to church to have it approved. Today is a busy day. Hopefully it will be a good one. God please bless my day today, go ahead of me and meet me at the end LORD. I need your help. Please help me, guide me, protect me and keep the enemy away from me and those around me. In Jesus' Name, AMEN!
Wednesday, March 28, 2007
Wednesday, March 14, 2007
You are charming, endearing, and people tend to love you.Forgiving and tolerant, you see the world through rose colored glasses.Underneath it all, you have a ton of passion that you hide from others.Always hopeful, you tend to expect positive outcomes in your life.
Monday, March 12, 2007
Golden Retriever
Thursday, March 08, 2007
We started out by him getting to know us separately, from when we were born up until now. Then we talked about how we met. I almost cried a couple of times because when I describe how I fell in love with Zac and how much of a blessing he has been to my life, I always get misty. Andy talked to us about the important things that we would be discussing in these sessions:
1) Spiritual & Communication
2) Finances
3) The Home & Family
I loved every minute of it. It really didn't feel like it was only an hour. So I am really looking forward to the next session. But he did give us homework. Our homework was to compile a budget starting after the wedding, and then to read Ephesians 5:21-33 about Husbands and Wives. So next session will be in a couple of weeks, 1 down, 2 to go.
Tuesday, March 06, 2007
How City/Country are you?
[x] I've been to Starbucks more than once in my life.
[x] I link arms when I walk with someone.
[ ] I shop at AE, A&F, or HCO.
[ ] I own 2 or more polo shirts.
[x] I will never be caught without my cell phone.
[ ] I straighten or blow dry my hair on a daily basis.
total:3
[ ] I wear flip flops no matter what the weather.
[ ] I own an oversized pair of sunglasses.
[ ] I own 1 or more pairs of ripped jeans.
[x] I layer my shirts
[ ] I have/had a "Myspace mirror pic".
total:1
[x] When I'm not drinking starbucks, I prefer water.
[x] I get annoyed with tom-boys.
[x] I own an oversized bag or purse.
[ ] I have seen every episode of Laguna Beach.
[ ] My new fav. is the Hills.
[x] I say "lol" in online chat.
[x] I own tight jeans
total: 5
[x] I wear large necklaces.
[ ] I own an iPod/mp3 player.
[x] I have the internet.
[x] have more than 1 AIM screen name.
total: 3
[ ] I have said "lol" or "OMG!" in a real conversation.
[x] I love shopping.
[x] I shop whenever I have a chance.
[ ] I own a bathing suit that cost 100 dollars or more.
[x] I have watched the Simple Life.
total:3
TOTAL:: 15***add x's and multiply by 3 and put I'm ...45% City
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How COUNTRY Are You?
I have..
[x] Ridden a horse.
[ ] Owned a horse.
[ ] Owned land.
[x] Been 4 wheeling.
[x] Said "ain't".
[ ] Been cow-tipping.
[ ] Been deer hunting.
[x] Been swimming in a lake.
[x] Caught a fish.
[ ] Seen a deer get skinned.
[ ] Skinned a deer.
total: 5
You..
[x] Have worked on a ranch or on land.
[x] Have lived in a house in the middle of nowhere.
[ ] Have been duck hunting.
[x] Have went swimming in a river.
[x] Driven a truck.
[ ] Own a rebel flag.
[ ] Own a rebel flag Zippo.
[x] Like to fish.
[x] Have a funny accent..or people have told you that.
[x] Owned a pair of cowboy boots.
[x] Own/owned a cowboy hat.
[ ] Own/have owned a big dog.
[x] Say "y'all".
[x] Have been made fun of for sayin "y'all".
total: 10
You also...
[x] Cuss when you're mad.
[ ] Have dipped/dip snuff.
[x] Go/have gone to Church on Sunday morning and night andWednesday night and are "Southern Baptist".
[ ] Owned/own a bird.
[ ] Have riddin' a horse to somewhere in town.
[x] Have gone on a field trip to a farm/ranch.
[x] Have eaten deer meat.
[x] Have shot a gun.
[ ] Own/owned a gun.
[x] Parked your vehicles in the yard.
[x] Have eaten chitlins.
[ ] Have eaten liver.
total: 7
You..
[ ] Have gone shopping..for a gun.
[ ] Get the kids in your family a toy gun for Christmas.
[ ] Unloaded straw.
[ ] Own more than two selfdone sleevless, name brand shirts that have oil stains on them.
[x] Know what stirrups are.
[ ] Have fed the deer.
[ ] Have/had dog named Buddy.
total:1
Total: 23***add x's and multiply by 3 and put I'm ...69% Country
Thursday, February 22, 2007
Friday, February 16, 2007
1. Men are like Laxatives ..... They irritate the crap out of you.
2. Men are like Bananas ....... The older they get, the less firm they are.
3. Men are like Weather.... Nothing can be done to change them.
4. Men are like Blenders.... You need One, but you're not quite sure why.
5. Men are like Chocolate Bars .... Sweet, smooth, & they usually head right for your hips.
6. Men are like Commercials ....... You can't believe a word they say.
7. Men are like Department Stores ..... Their clothes are always ½ off.
8. Men are like Government Bonds .... They take soooooooo long to mature.
9. Men are like Mascara ... They usually run at the first sign of emotion.
10. Men are like Popcorn ..... They satisfy you, but only for a little while.
11. Men are like Snowstorms .... You never know when they're coming, how many inches you'll get or how long it will last.
12. Men are like Lava Lamps .... Fun to look at, but not very bright.
13. Men are like Parking Spots .... All the good ones are taken, the rest are handicapped.
Now isn't that the funniest thing ever?
Well it is short and sweet today, really tired and don't feel well. I haven't been sleeping very well because I have been over stressed, anxious and my allergies/sinuses have been going haywire. What I need to do is go home, take a benedryl as soon as I get home and knock myself out. Now that sounds like a great idea. I have a long drive ahead of me tomorrow and then it will be relax time with my sister. Thank goodness for 3 day weekends. Happy Friday everyone!
Wednesday, February 14, 2007
Happy Valentines Day?
What is the big deal about Valentines day? You get chocolate, you eat it, you get fat. You get flowers, they look beautiful for a couple of days, and then they die. You get stuffed animals, you think they are cute for a couple of days, then they end up in a drawer or under the bed, never to be seen again. You get lingerie, you wear it once, and then it gets put into a drawer. What is the point of celebrating ONE day?!?! Zac and I had talked about this quite a bit when we were dating. Celebrating our love for one day is ridiculus, celebrating our love everyday is what you are supposed to do. It doesn't matter if there is a holiday that is all about love, Zac and I celebrate our love for each other everyday of the year. That is real love. I don't need a holiday to inspire me to tell my true love that I love him with all of my heart and want to show him how I love him. I do that all the time anyways. Zac I love you so much sweety and I thank God everyday for you. You have been such an amazing blessing to me and I cannot imagine a man more wonderful than you. You are my best friend, my companion, my partner in crime *giggle*, my strength, my heart, my one and only love. Thank you for choosing me to love and choosing me to spend the rest of your life with. I will do my best to be the wife you want and deserve.
"LORD God, please bless our marriage and bless Zac for choosing me to be his wife. LORD you know I am very difficult, very emotional and hard headed. But LORD you also know my heart, you know my soul and mind, and you know how much I love this man. Please help me to be the wife he wants, deserves and needs. Help me to be the woman you describe in
Proverbs 31:10-31:
"Who can find a virtuous and capable wife? She is worth more than precious rubies. Her husband can trust her, and she will greatly enrich his life. She will not hinder him but help him all her life...She is energectic and strong, a hard worker. She watches for bargains; her lights burn late into the night. Her hands are busy sprinning thread, her fingers twisting fiber. She extends a helping hand to the poor and opens her arms to the needy. She has no fear of winter for her household because all of them have warm clothes. She quilts her own bedspreads. She dresses like royalty in gowns of finest cloth...She is clothed with strength and dignity and she laughs with no fear of the future. When she speaks, her words are wise, and kindness i teh rule when she gives instructions. She carefully watches all that goes on in her household and does not have to bear the consequences of laziness. Her children stand and bless her. Her husband praises her: "There are more virtuous and capable women in the world, but you surpass them all!" Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the LORD will be greatly praised. Reward her for all she has done. Let her deeds publicly declare her praise."
LORD God please watch over us and protect us from the enemy. You know he hates marriage, even when it is under you and your perfect love. Lord I pray that our love will grow even more to be the unconditional love that you have for us, your children. Help our marriage to grow strong so that we may stand strong with our feet firmly planted on the ground during the storms that we will face! I love you Lord God and I thank you for the many blessings. Thank you again for Zac. He is such an amazing and wonderful man! I LOVE HIM LORD. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!
In Jesus' perfect name, AMEN!"
My prayer to all of you out there, may God bless you in each of your lives, bless the ones you love, and to shower you with his unconditional love. God loves you and so do I!
Monday, February 05, 2007
Wedding plans are going well, I think. My bridesmaids have ordered their dresses and shoes, which is a load off of mine. Red and I went to David's Bridal on Saturday, and I thought I was in a bad dream. There were tons of brides, with their bridesmaids, and TEENAGERS, shopping for prom. Talk about little hoochies with slutty dresses. Yuck! Anyways, we brought Munchkin with us to find some shoes, hair piece, etc. to go with her dress for the wedding since she is my flower girl. She looks so adorable! We found the exact dress she is going to wear and put it on her. I found the cutest bow for her hair and little ballet slippers, which are named after here too. *giggle* We put all of that stuff on her, and she was so precious! Every bride and bridesmaid that was there, just stopped what they were doing and looked at her while I was taking pictures. All of them said, "Oh, how adorable", "can I come to that wedding", "can she be in my wedding?" It was great. I piped up and said, "she is MY flower girl" with a smirk on my face. It was great. She really will be adorable. I'm gonna have a kissing ball for her to carry down the aisle instead of spreading rose petals or carrying a bouquet. Red was blushing and you could really tell she was so happy that she was the mother of Munchkin. I can't wait.
Days until my Wedding: 88 (YEEHAW)
*now wouldn't it be sick if I actually had it down to hours, minutes and seconds too?*
Tuesday, January 16, 2007
Let it sleet, let it sleet, let it sleet...
but where am I....at work! Of all places. Oh well. At the moment, the sun is trying to peek through the clouds, but it is still sleeting. The roads are slick, the sideswalks are being iced over, and where am I still...at work. Goodness. I know I am being whiny, but I would rather be safe at home and i my pajamas curled under a blanket and in my bed. My warm fuzzy pajamas are calling my name...ok maybe I need to get that checked out. Well, not much to write about...maybe more later. In the mean time, stay warm, stay dry, and think twice before going out in this weather. Later!